Tuesday, April 10, 2007

Oh, to fall in love!!!

Some of my friends have been asking me to write something on love, so I am making this attempt. Love its a very complicated word and means many things to many people. For me love is mysterious and competely out of this world. If this was not mysterious how would you describe the feeling that you start expriecning all of a sudden for someone. This feeling can be for a person who is new in your life or for someone who has always been in your life. The second part is scary and hits you Wham! on the face. Imgaine you have known this person forever and suddenly you start feeling something different for that person and when you think why am i feeling like this, you just don't get any answers.

Childhood love and teenage love rarely last and most of the times it is not love but infatuation that you feel. I don't know the difference between love and infatuation but i know that a very thin line exists between the two. I strictly believe that love must never be left upexpressed, if you love someone just go ahead and tell him or her. Believe me you will never regret this, at least you will know about the feelings of the other person and you move ahead with life. otheriwse life gets stuck, you don't know whether to move ahead or do anything else. That is scary......

I have seen many people falling in and out of relationships and that is not my idea of love. Yes, things do not always work out as the way we want them to, but there is no harm in putting some efforts and finding out if it is really hopeless as it apppears to be or not. It is better to fall in love and exprience all that is associated with this beautiful feeling. Imgaine how wonderful it would be to know that someone other then your family actually loves you so much. This can be quite a heady feeling!!!

Make love, not war,
Cheers'


6 comments:

Anonymous said...

well done! hats off to your writing ability if not to the message.
I feel the lessons here are intriguing for guys; fair sex utilize them to befool boys and to use them for their interest. May be shakespeare had experienced this before saying "frailty, thy name is women!"
MANSAF MURSHED ALAM, murshed2k1@gmail.com

ayesha said...

@Mansaf, Thanks for the comment.
But I am not very sure if this is intriguing or not!!!

Vivek said...

sorry to all for sharing my personal experience...

ayesha i wish if if u could have written this blog a decade before when i was in 9th standard.That time i thought its love and whatever i was doing i was doing to get her in my life.i studied alot alot alot to impress her and to get success in my life so that i can get her. i dont know whether it was love or infatuation but i never told her about my feelings till now.now she
is a mother with beautiful kid, all living in USA.
now i dont have that kind of feelings for her any more so i guess it was infatuation but it lasted for 6 years.
THis is the end of my first love story.

next story:
"Waiting for that"
by-- Mr. lonely

ayesha said...

@ Vivek
As I said it is very difficult to recognize that thin line between infatuation and love, but maybe time is the best emans to know. Even if it is after 6 years, You did come to know it was infatuation!!!

Rest easy, your next story will happen pretty soon......

Sanjay Mazumder said...

Infatuation....

Love....



Well, in simple words..... Love is the essence of life.... Without love can we imagine of the world existing till today.... NEVER...

Love should be taken in a broader sense.... Love for motherland, love for nature, love for parents, love for friends..... love for the opposite sex.... etc.

Love is really VAST.... and it can't be defined so easily....

As for example, even Ayesha and myself also do have some kind of feelings for each other, obivously, it's not the love between a man and a woman..... this is the love between two friends.... and it is also called love.... if love is not there then I might not have written a comment out here... :-)

I wanna say that LOVE has various forms..... It's not just the love between a man and a woman....

And abt Infatuation... don't know whether it can be there in all the other forms of love except the love between a man and a woman.... :-)

Confused once again....

ayesha said...

Dead right Sanjay, love is much more broader...its everywhere starting from parents to siblings to family to friends and much beyond then all those as well!!